I will never make the same mistake. Ever.
Which is funny because so many times, men claim they cheat on their wives because their wives aren’t perfect, aren’t fulfilling all their needs, and aren’t doing enough to make them feel like big, strong men. It seems like no matter what a woman does, it’s not enough. Men still cheat.
Not to say I think all men cheat. I do think the ones, though, who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions, who blame other people for their transgressions, and who fail to value the people in their lives who love them and care for them are incredibly likely to cheat. They’re also likely to be classic specimens of douchebag, not entirely unlike yourself.
My advice to men who want to blame the women they are with, whether the women are perfect or not, for their own inability to keep it in their pants: grow up. After a while the stunted state of adolescence stops being appealing, and when you’re 80 years old and there’s nobody around to wipe your runny ass because you fucked over all the people who loved you, you’ll have no one to blame but yourselves. Although I’m sure even then you’ll still try to blame it on somebody, because you, of course, being a man and all could never be at fault.
This is where you are wrong. WE don’t want a perfect wife. We crave women who have their own lives and lead an independence existence. We do not want women who literally “drop everything” when we come into the picture. And i don’t mean to put you down, but maybe he got ”bored’ with your ”perfect wife’ status and he decided to cheat. Just remember something, WE cheat because you women are doing something wrong.
It was a mistake to be the ”perfect wife”.
I used to think that if I tirelessly endeavored to be the perfect wife, waiting on his hand and foot, never saying “no” to him in any circumstance he’d love me and be faithful to me. Our friends and family marvel again and again at my willing attentiveness to his every whim and need, even they told him what a lucky man he was, and how they hope he appreciates me. His co-workers say they wish their wives did half as much for them, showed them half the love, respect and attention I show him, they’d consider themselves blessed. They jokingly say they’d marry me in a heartbeat.
And still he lied to me, cheated on me, bullshit me. He has the perfect wife, and he still wanted or needed to turn to other women.
I will never fall in love again.
Of course you WANT to have sex with other women. But you DON’T. Gee, it’s like a promise or something.
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